Today on the Well Led Life Podcast, Episode 6…we’ll look at Pillar 4 - Serve… and we'll see how Colossians 3:23-24 should set the tone for how we show up to serve others.
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It says: Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.

This can be a really challenging pillar to live into!  For me, it’s the hardest of the 4.  Yet, it’s the most rewarding.  We’re going to:

• understand how to serve others with a “happy heart,”
• see from scripture why that’s important
• and reflect on our own life to consider where we may need to grow
• (and what we may need to let go of to do so).

Click on the link below to listen or search for "The Well Led Life with Bobbie Dull" on whatever podcast app you prefer.

If you’re interested in walking through the 4 Pillars with my direct guidance then I invite you to become part of my signature program - The Lifestyle Reset.
This coaching program takes these 4 Pillars over the course of 12 weeks (so 12, one-hour online coaching sessions - or in person if you’re local) - where we will:

• understand the depth of & REASON for each,
• REFLECT on how they apply to you,
• REEVALUATE how things may need to shift or change to move forward,
• and ultimately to embrace a RESET in your life.

✨ Joined a networking group
✨ Launched a podcast
✨ Started training at a gym
✨ Created new relationships (that seemed like they were out of thin air)
✨ Went all in on showing up for my business consistently
✨ Let go of ‘expectations’ & embraced our homeschooling style
✨ Went back to my natural hair color (after a decade of highlights)
✨ Learned to ride a mini-bike… think little motorcycle lol (which, at 5’2” didn’t feel very mini to me)
✨ Tore out my entire 50x20 veggie & medicinal garden and started completely over
✨ Stopped following the rules
✨ Quit waiting for tomorrow

Get someone in your corner who will cheer you on, support your growth and even push you when you need it!
I have surrounded myself with friends, other entrepreneurs, a trainer, and of course my hubby (who loves to encourage me to try new things - refer to said mini-bike example 🤪).
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My second thoughts were - what are they seeing in me?  What might I be doing that leads them to say such a thing?  From that place of reflection I acknowledged that yes, I do a lot (no I don't think I'm special because of it).  But with all that I do, I had to build up to each thing - over time.  I've had to stretch my capacity.

When You Want More
When you want to make changes, add new habits, or start new things in your life it can feel overwhelming!!  Often times we want it all - right now.  Or at least I can feel like that!  Yet, what I know from habit change coaching - and from personal experience - is that baby steps are key.
We may want to:

• add in exercise,
• change how we're eating,
• start a new business,
• read the Bible everyday,
• step out of our comfort zone to make new friends,
• take up a new hobby,
• etc.

But we can't imagine how we're going to fit it in.
There is always something to be said for taking one thing off your plate before adding something new.  YET, that's not always possible.  So when I find myself in this place - and yet I have that deep desire to do something new... I baby step it in, and stretch my capacity slowly until it becomes part of my rhythm & routine.

Nix This Limiting Belief
​You don't need to buy into the false or limiting belief that you "can't" do something just because it feels hard to start.  You may have to:

• adjust your schedule,
• tackle your mindset,
• or be honest about unimportant things you're giving your time to.

Honestly, a hard truth (said with all the love) is that I find that most of us have the time... we're just mismanaging it OR we use it as an excuse so we don't have to take that first (often hard or uncomfortable) step.

Does That Resonate With You?
If you have a deep desire to start something new - but you find yourself stuck, let this be your encouragement to take a small step in the right direction today.  Then slowly build on that until it becomes a smooth part of your rhythm.  You could even write out the achievable steps that will get you from here to there, and give yourself a date when you want to have this new thing fully integrated into your life.  (Sometimes we need that or we won't push ourselves to get it done​.)

I've Got You
If you could use support:

• getting unstuck,
• mapping out a plan,
• understanding how to seek God's leading
• or making a major shift in your lifestyle...

I'm here for you.  We can start with a free Discovery Call to see what will be most helpful for you... and it's always my goal to leave you with at least one "nugget of knowledge" that you can put into place from that simple 15 minute conversation.

How I'm 'Stretching' This Week!
​If you wondered how I'm stretching my capacity... I've just joined a quaint new gym in town and I start attending classes this Saturday!!  I too value accountability, and I always show up better when I'm going to the gym (as opposed to working out at home as I've been doing for quite a while now).  I miss being in the gym and having that support.  So, I'll slowly add in classes to my schedule (kettlebell, mobility, strength, etc) as I adjust my own schedule (and mindset) to do so!  Btw, if you're local (Southern Lancaster County, PA - I invite you to join me - the first class is free!)

​Now go get after it or schedule that Discovery Call​ so we can get started!  ;-)  YOU CAN DO IT!!!

In episode 2 of The Well Led Life Podcast I’ll share how God really got my attention; and He didn’t just slow me down he brought my life to a full stop - for an entire year.  This was no ordinary year… and if it weren’t for my total reliance on and surrender to God - I don’t know how I would’ve made it through.

You’ll learn the most impactful and wonderful thing that came out of all of this - and it’s the basis of my coaching, my parenting, my relationships, my everything.  It’s the 4 Pillars of Rhythm.  They’re what create my Well Led Life, and they’re what can create yours.

You’ll get an overview of the 4 Pillars in this episode and we’ll dive into each individually in upcoming episodes.  As a gift to you and to jumpstart your efforts - you can pop on over to the “let’s chat” page of my website to download a free 4 Pillars Journaling Worksheet with journal prompts & actions to begin applying these pillars for yourself!!